Welcome to Mars: A Man's Beginner Experience with Tantric Sex Pt. 2

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Here is Part 2 of our first Welcome to Mars feature by guest blogger @Coreman2200. Share his first experience in the Tantric realm! If this doesn't make you want to take up Tantric I don't know what will. Click here for part 1. Read on...


What makes this whole experience so utterly brilliant (besides the fact that it in my case had been a 1+ hour long orgasmic adventure ;) is that, again, it is like remembering part of you. And since the first time, I have been able to tap back into it without much effort. The lack of control is scary, at first (we’re so accustomed to keeping our composure, even in the privacy of our very own bed rooms), so it may feel bizarre or even scary to give in to what at its most intense can be convulsive fits at even the slightest touch - this can be especially troublesome if you are not wholly in-tune with your partner (new love), or if this is all Self-generated (new Awareness). But let me assure you that the best thing you can do in this space is just to roll with it. For one, control comes in time as you come to See what is going on with your body, and only by letting go can you come to understand this. But in the end, to deny this and not explore it is to deny and ignore your very Self, and this will not do! Fear Not! Free Your Self!

        
For those curious, here are some tips to get you going and (more or less) on the right track to finding your own tantric adventure. Note that I’m no master at this, and should probably not even offer such advice for that reason. Ha! But I believe in sharing experiences, if for no other reason than to help illuminate someone else’s journey. So I hope these tips help! Here we go:

- Be calm, be patient, be still - Meditate! Meditation in my view is the only reason I was able to get to this other step so fluidly, because a lot of the same efforts are utilized. You have to be comfortable with freeing yourself of your thinking and distractions. It has to be all about you becoming one with and more greatly attuned to your Self. Meditation will most certainly help in this regard.

- If you play music, make sure it is music that resonates with you - flows with you - moves to your specific vibe (and if applicable, to your partners). Otherwise it becomes distracting, and distraction is the Last thing you want on this journey.

- Don’t Stress It. Just as in meditation, the point is not to think about meditating, itself, or your wants/desires, but clearing your Mind, and clearing away all the clutter (distraction) so that the Self  can speak through you directly, clearly.

- Find a book on Tantric exercises/massages/sexuality and become Aware of steps they suggest (breathing techniques, massages, settings and misc. ambiance adjustments) - to know how/where to touch your Self and/or your partner when the time comes is Very useful!

- I think this is the most important tip: Be Aware of your Energy and all the energy around you. It is Key. It is in fact what you are feeling - the loving rhythmic dance and caress of energy between you, perhaps a partner, and all of your surrounding Universe.

Dive In!

coreman2200




Rest assured we will be blogging further with the Core himself! And look out for more info on the Tantric experience right here!


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Welcome to Mars: A Man's Beginner Experience with Tantric Sex Pt. 1

Hey Freakz & Geekz!


Long time no freakydeeky!... Actually I hope you've been getting freaky without me! ;-) It has been a while, just know that good things are in the works - Freakygeeky good things! 


Welcome to Mars is my effort to incorporate the first person male perspective & experience to Freakz & Geekz! All articles under this series will be, of course, be by a MAN :-). So...




Without further ado let me introduce you to @Coreman2200. A soulful, spiritual, smart, sexy tweep of mine - equal parts freak and geek... sometimes. (Google him!...Seriously) A few weeks ago he let the cat out the bag that he received his book on the Art of tantric sex in the mail. Well that was all I needed to see in my timeline! I invited him to write a blog for F&G about his particular experience as a beginner to the world of Tantric sex, amd he kindly obliged. I've always been interested in tantric - specifically because it allows the mind to exist on a higher plane, and take the body with it into blissful euphoria ... YES! (uhhh... got a little carried away there :-$)... so I think it was fate, me catching his tweet. Below is part 1 of 2 on his personal experience. Also, make sure to visit Coreman2200's blog here.




I had an important first, this week. One of beautiful Self Growth. One of profound Self-Awareness. A few days ago, in what started as a normal meditation session, I had my very first and very own Tantric Experience. And oh, what an experience it was! Nothing in the All of my days aptly compares to what had happened over the course of this wondrous (almost 2 hour long) expansion of my essence, so it will be hard to describe. It will take different strokes, means, and levels of effort for each individual to reach this plateau, themselves. Therefor, I aim not to give you some sort of how-to guide hindered by the limits of my own experience. What I’d like to share are the very smallest aspects of this experience, that which could possibly ever make sense in words, such that you might be inclined, too, to explore your Self.

        And that, I believe, is the most important thing gained of this - the finding more of your very Self. The whole affair had been like having the most sacred and sensual aspects of you that you’ve ever forgotten caressed -slowly, compassionately- not by one hand but infinity; not by one frail form but with the force and will of all the Universe. Its a dance of chaos and rhythm, internal stillness and incessant vibration. Its like the skin no longer serves as a barrier and limit between you and all else, but at the same time keeps the radiating, pulsating, vibrating energy bouncing around inside of you. You absorb energy from every touch (Every), and as it takes concerted efforts to release it, everything is compounded. The pleasure of this is tantamount to having orgasms explode atop yet other orgasms. Endlessly. Freely. Wondrously.

        It can be overwhelming, especially for men like myself. For one, there’s a certain amount of control that you have to hand over to the experience, itself - namely, all of it. You are not supposed to control this experience by the conventional means by which we are accustomed (force). Two, we are not regularly Aware of full body orgasms... Unless, well, it’s been a while. My body grew numb, first at my furthest reaches (the fingertips and toes, crown..) from my core (which by feel I would have to say was within me, right below my belly button), which seemed to be calling toward it all of this feeling and sensitivity. Then intense vibrations, again ever-building, explode within you, and any vibrations/energy you feel only add to this. I listen to music when I meditate, and that, too, had a very real and very physical effect.

        


Look out for PART 2 which will include tips on how to get a start on your Tantric experience!

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