7.16.2010

He's So Hood

He's so hood
He wears his pants below his waist and
He's not afraid to take position below mine.


He's so hood
When he pulls my hair and smacks my ass
I forget what day it is and what's the time.


He's so hood
I kiss his lips, I love that taste
Makes my pussy wet and I prepare to blow his mind


He's so hood
And I like it just that way
Cause I know at the end of the day


He's coming home to me
yes... that's all mine




*dedicated to every man out there with a go-getter, ambitious, driven mentality. Very little to do with where you are physically and all to do with where you are mentally.




*Get Freaked*

7.12.2010

LAW ENFORCEMENT and ENLIGHTENMENT

Freakz and Geekz alike,


Did you know that more than half of all Americans get a sexually transmitted disease or infection at some time in their lives?

Welcome to my first FreakznGeekz PSA. Here we are all about adventure, little to no judgement (a human does write this thing after all), sex appeal, pleasure, and confidence. Yes we are all about sex... and so saying it would be remiss of me not to address the complications that come along with the act. As with most things in life that society has established a position from which it looks down upon the rebels, revolutionaries and mold breakers, there are rules, regulations, taboos, norms, accepted behavior etc. Despite all this, there is one topic that even a rebel, outcast, geek or *freak* cannot avoid....

(drum roll please) SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED INFECTIONS/DISEASES (I would add children but... that's another blog)


Regardless of how you deal with this topic as an individual, how you have been told to deal with it in your culture, or how you have felt pressured to deal with it by your affiliates the significance and importance of GETTING TESTED and KNOWING YOUR STATUS ONLY INCREASES IN URGENCY. The more you tap into your sexual Vespucci or De Gama the more important it will be for you to get tested. And even more so if you happen to be allergic to the mere thought of sexual monogamy.

It is scary, yes. Your sexual his/herstory will most likely flash before your eyes... and depending on your activity that flash may be a short film or full feature movie.
It is scary, yes. But it is absolutely necessary. Knowing is better than not knowing any day. How can you be truly confident, pleasured and pleasurable, sexy and adventurous while wallowing in oblivion and denial??

I don't care how anti-norm or anti-establishment you are. And If you don't have insurance that is irrelevant.

What is relevant is your responsibility to yourself and your partner(s). It only takes one time - one condom breaking, one misuse of the condom, one time in the throes of never ending passion, one unfaithful partner, one lie... to drastically change your life.

HIV/AIDS is a real issue. So is Herpes, Gonorrhea, Syphilis, Chlamydia, Hepatitis (and the list goes on).We are not invincible just because we are young. Some of these STI's, if undetected can cause major reproductive organ complications, blindness, and even death.

SO... once again go GET TESTED. 
  • Most sites offer anonymous testing so don't worry about revealing your identity. 
  • If you are worried about the time constraint (which is silly since you should always make time for your health) there are rapid testing options which will give you your HIV results in less than half hour in some instances. Other STI tests may take longer. 
  • Some sites do not even require that you return to get your results many have gone hi tech and you log in to a web site with a unique pin and ID number to retrieve your results.

Big woman and big man ting dem, require big woman and big man decisions!!!

Here's a few links to get you started on your road to being enlightened:

Google: DUH :) google still has ev-er-ythang... just type "free HIV (or STD) testing" and your zip code, city, or state





*Freak=>Geek*


7.01.2010

Tricks are for....

The next time you see your man/lover/boytoy/fwb as soon as the door closes behind you, you walk him over to 
  1. the living room couch: You give him a nice nudge that forces him to land square in the middle of the couch. This is your night to start off with. Put your dominatrix bustier on (well metaphorically speaking). Proceed to straddle your man. Doesn't have to be fancy, but it needs to be assertive enough so he knows that you are in control tonight and you mean business. Try not to knock anything off the coffee table unless clumsy looks cute on you. He is not allowed to touch you just yet. Use this to your advantage. Tease him with your tongue. If you don't know his spots, this is your chance to find them. And if you don't know what his penis looks like, this is your chance to get acquainted. If you are not into getting acquainted with his penis orally, then you continue to torture him with your tongue and you hands. Be mindful of the fine line between exciting and "omg! one more lick and my dick will be soft!" You undress him. You direct him where you want him to go. But I don't see why you'd want to go anywhere else when straddling him on the couch perfectly allows you to control the penetration, allows for deep penetration, ANNNND provides clitoral stimulation. After all... it IS about you tonight. Trust me, any man worth his dick will want to look down and see you workin it, reigning and raining all over him ;) . Prime real estate... it's all about the view!! Now for those of us who don't mind getting acquainted with the dick, all of the above may fall into round 2 or 3 of your session. Because after you treat him to a suck and a blow, he'll definitely want to repay the favor. Well, he should. And if he doesn't, drop that fool... he's crowding the space of someone who could be putting in as much work as you are. So!... Once u reach the undress point above you will be faced with that beautiful strong dick of his. I really won't get into too many details here since we will be adding tricks a.k.a tips on how to really give good head. For now though, here are some pointers to take with you:
      • It helps to know what your man likes and how he likes it, but that doesn't mean there isn't room to blow his mind with something different every now and then
      • Don't be afraid of deep throating. Gagging is a reflex caused by tension and anxiety... so relax literally, and relax your throat. You really can't choke on his penis unless you actually try to swallow it. And unless you have mastered some skill using the muscles at the back of your throat to create different sensations.... Just relax... really. It'll allow you both to enjoy the experience. Yes... it is less enjoyable for him if you are heaving on or actually throwing up on his dick.... unless he's into that... and that's a whole other blog. 
      • If deep throating just isn't your thing use your hands to mimic an extension of your mouth.
      • it's good to switch it up but when you feel him getting to that point. Unless the plan was just to get him aroused, keep it steady. Some guys like the motion to increase in speed and intensity, some don't. But just like switching positions or oral motions can kinda reset your orgasm, changing the motion or stopping does the same for him.
      • Please do not forget to lubricate. I mean... don't be afraid to get your saliva involved in the festivities, however refrain from creating wild water kingdom on his dick with your mouth. He prefers that after you come. During head it just feels like he's thrusting his dick into a heated pool (see how exciting that is if you don't have arthritis?)
      • Lil Wayne was right... you can and should lick it like a lollipop... i.e. Suction baby, suction! (hmm... maybe he was wrong and it should be suck it like a lollipop. . . something to think about)
      • Did I say Relax? Relax! and even if you have no clue what you are doing here's some basic shit: mind your teeth, form a nice O with your lips and keep your teeth awaaay from the action. And bring the confidence too... if nothing else that'll get you off to a great start!!!!
P.S. the kitchen counter, dining room table, washing machine/dryer, the trunk/hood of the car, the patio chair are all excellent options for this. 

Disclaimer :You'll need somewhere sturdy... so use of the dining room table or any other furniture is at your discretion. We here at F&G are not liable for any injury that you may incur during the practice of this exercise. But have fun while trying:)!!


Geek => Freak!