Numero Uno!

I decided to start this blog because in the past few months I have come to realize that even in the liberal and care free twenties, there are just too many taboos when it comes to sex. It alarms me the number of females I know who are yet to be comfortable even saying the dreaded “S” word. So my real goal here, above all else, is to empower and educate females of all ages, sizes, ethnicities and orientations.

This blog is a judgment free zone . . . that is, it is a judgment free zone in as much as you choose not to feel judged by my advice. We keep it real . . . and very sexy. Here the aim is to demystify the notion that sex should be quarantined from the rest of our lives. Regardless of age, religion, class, race, sexual preference or political views, we are human. That means we have urges, wants and needs that should be met. It’s hard enough figuring out what those desires are without having to figure out how to have them met.

Especially for those who approach sex with great apprehension, much trepidation, and sometimes straight out fear, I hope that this blog will some how create a forum for all the discussion to unfold. It’ll run the gamut from how to’s in bed to relationship and dating advice. Things can get really real, so brace yourself and take that stick you didn’t know you had out your ass.

Sexual liberation and empowerment- I am all for it. From the S&M kind to the “I’m gonna do it with the lights on” kind to the “I know I’m the shit” kind. But the key to gaining this empowerment and liberation, besides being safe, is being confident. One does not have to be confident in what one does… because let’s face it, no one knows every thing and no one’s tried it all. The key is to be confident in oneself, in one’s skin, in one’s body, and as cliché as it may seem, everything else really does fall into place. Confidence is the sexiest garment one can wear, a fine quality to possess annnd guess what? The shit is free and has a 100% success rate.

So ladies let’s raise our glasses to learning ourselves and loving ourselves and having fun along the way. Partners, you may raise your glasses to reaping the benefits of our self discovery.